Wednesday, April 13, 2011

My Best Friend's Girl

Dear Peregrin,

I had a dream about my friends girlfriend. I'ts not sexual in any way. I remember that we sat on a train, and there was this complete inner peace in my self. I remember buying a magazine in a store and that we where with my friends earlier. I never touch her. We just were there, we did not even talk. I just felt peace. In my real life I take the train to school every morning. I have been under a lot of pressure in school lately. exams and stuff... Does this have to mean that i have those feelings for her?

please help... I'm confused.

Alex

Good morning, Alex.

If you harbored secret desire for your friend's girlfriend, your dream would have reflected this a bit more.

Rather, your dream is trying to tell you that you do not have to have a sexual relationship to be close with someone and take pleasure in their company.

I think that what's happening here, is that you're a bit lonely in addition to stressed. You see the bond that your friend has with her, and envy it - you would like to have someone always be there for you. It's not that you especially want this particular girl - you just associate her with an idyllic relationship.

Remember that there will be an end to your current stress. Get through your exams, and once you have, invite someone - not your friends girlfriend - to a celebratory dinner.

Pleasant dreams,

Peregrin

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