The other dream this guy I work with was talking to me.I mean really talking to me. As soon as he walked away i whispered I wish he would just listen to me. I turned and asked me to repeat myself. I did. He then became obsessed me. Stalking me, calling me. In the apartment i live now became possessed with ghost. My cat became a man. A very hot guy. I was so shocked, that fainted. Then as I was coming around the cat/man told me he love and had missed me.
Good morning, Southfire.
Your first dream speaks of loneliness and disappointment. But I think you have to remember that it goes backward in time for a reason. On the day you first meet him you realize that he doesn't love you, and that is the big disappointment. But earlier in your dream is later in time, and it's obvious that you are in love then. So the message I see here is, what happens is not always what you expect at first. Something that is very important to you has a bad beginning, but that is no reason to give up on it.
Your second dream sounds more like a "be careful what you wish for" message. Your idly whispered wish was granted in the extreme, to the point that it was scary. Meanwhile "true love" was there under your nose, all the time. The cat represents something (or someone) that you overlook because it's there all the time, but is in fact exactly what you are looking for. Meanwhile you're out looking in the wrong place, and what you find is not exactly what you wanted.
Given that both dreams are about relationships, I'd hazard a guess that this is the kind of thing that's on your mind lately. I'd suggest that you take the advice of both dreams - look a little closer to home, and don't give up on a poor beginning.