Wet Dreams

Hi Peregrin.

I was wanting to know if you could help me with this dream. Ok well this is a little embarrassing, but since we don't know each other it really doesn't matter. Ok, well first off I have only ever had two "wet dreams" in my life,but they have both been dreams about the same girl. She is nobody imparticularly special to me. She is my good friends sister, but I was wondering if these dreams meant something more because they were about the same person or what. The first dream all I can remember is that I was making love to her in a unique position, and that was about it I woke up in the morning and I was a little surprised as you can imagine. That happened about nine months to a year ago.

The second time was last night, and I was asking her to show me some kind of dance move for some reason and the next thing I know we started dancing closer and closer, until all of a sudden we were once again making love but still standing up and dancing.

Oh and one more thing which I would think has nothing at all to do with it, but I just though I should put it in, neither of the times this happened was I sleeping in my own bed. The first time I was sleeping on my couch in the living room,
and the second time (last nigh) I was sleeping in the guest bedroom.

I would appreciate any help you could give me on this. Whether it meant something because it was the same person both times, or whether it was something completly natural. Once again I thank you for your help.

Sincerely,

Quin

Good morning, Quin.

Night emissions, or "wet dreams," may be rare in males past puberty, but not at all unheard of, so that by itself is no cause for concern.

Nor would I attach any special significance to the object being the same girl both times - unless you want it to be significant. Dream people can directly represent the person they resemble, but they can also represent someone similar, or just another aspect of the dreamer himself. How did you feel (emotionally) during, and after, each dream?

I do find the similarities between the two dreams interesting. Both time, the sexual position is unique, and both times you are not sleeping in your own bed. It could be that you find the unusual exciting.

Or, maybe (this just occurred to me), this activity with your friend's sister is an indication of your relationship with your friend - you could feel that he is like a brother to you (a marriage to his sister would make him a brother in law).

You might also want to consider, who was sleeping in your bed those two times that you weren't? Just as before, this doesn't automatically mean anything, but it may help prompt you to think of possible meanings for these dreams.

Or it could be that you occasionally would like casual sex with someone who doesn't mean anything special to you, which would make these dreams simple wish-fulfillment.

Pleasant dreams,

Peregrin