I've never done this so I don't' know if I am suppose to type anything else. But um Matt is a really Metrosexualy acting guy. He is a friend, but we don't' get along very well. I thought that might help.
Jennifer2001Good morning, Jennifer
A good portion of this dream sounds like a personal acknowledgement of your own animus - masculine side, if you will. The thing to remember is, most dream characters reflect upon the dreamer in one way or another, so in one sense, everybody in the dream is you. So when you tell Matt that you love him despite his taste in music, you are saying to your animus, "Yes, I know you exist and I accept you, even if I don't like all the implications."
Part of this analysis comes from the women's club. Every other person there (facets of your own personality) is female, and you're considering joining. This would, essentially, exclude your animus, which you are not willing to do. In fact, there are other aspects of your personality which you find more objectionable, as outlined by Matt's violently ill reaction to the ugliness of the woman who brought you to the meeting.
Of course, the dream isn't only about you and your selves, it's also about your current situation, which is probably what brought up these symbols. You're facing a decision to choose one path or the other, both of which are mutually exclusive. The women's club represents one path, and Matt represents the other. You seem to be leaning toward the choice which Matt represents, which could be indicative of judging based upon looks (again, to guess based upon Matt's reaction).
Your life, your choices. However, this course of action is disapproved by some - either peers, or even yourself in the form of guilt. The woman handing out jewelry and bibles denies them to you, indicating you feel unworthy (or are being made to feel unworthy) in some way - both of physical and spiritual rewards.
I can't identify the situation any further than that, but hopefully you will get an idea from what we have so far.