I had a LUCID dream about me and my boyfriend seeing each other on the beach. I started kissing him and he pulled back and dove into the water. Then I saw my secret crush and he came over and started making out with me. I had sex with the crush and it really did feel good. Was this dream telling me I am a slut, or was there a deeper meaning?
Kitty
Good morning, Kitty.
Sometimes a dream is nothing more than an escapist way of trying something that we normally can't or wouldn't do. People do some freaky stuff in their dreams - it's really okay, if you enjoyed the dream then fine. It doesn't mean you'd do the same thing while awake.
A couple of things to point out:
You didn't do anything until your boyfriend left you. When he pulls back and dives into the water, he's essentially making himself unavailable to you. So, the thought here is, IF you didn't already have a boyfriend, you'd really enjoy making out with the guy you're crushing on. That's not slutty, it's just harmless fantasizing.
You say that this was a lucid dream. The definition of a lucid dream is one in which you know that you're dreaming. Any time you know you're dreaming, go ahead and have fun - that's what they're for.
"Sex on the beach" is also a name for a drink - maybe you were thirsty? Okay, probably not, but I just wanted to drive home the idea that you don't have to worry about what this dream says about you.
Kitty
Good morning, Kitty.
Sometimes a dream is nothing more than an escapist way of trying something that we normally can't or wouldn't do. People do some freaky stuff in their dreams - it's really okay, if you enjoyed the dream then fine. It doesn't mean you'd do the same thing while awake.
A couple of things to point out:
You didn't do anything until your boyfriend left you. When he pulls back and dives into the water, he's essentially making himself unavailable to you. So, the thought here is, IF you didn't already have a boyfriend, you'd really enjoy making out with the guy you're crushing on. That's not slutty, it's just harmless fantasizing.
You say that this was a lucid dream. The definition of a lucid dream is one in which you know that you're dreaming. Any time you know you're dreaming, go ahead and have fun - that's what they're for.
"Sex on the beach" is also a name for a drink - maybe you were thirsty? Okay, probably not, but I just wanted to drive home the idea that you don't have to worry about what this dream says about you.
Pleasant dreams,
Peregrin
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